Reflections on Thailand and Malaysia: A Journey of Discovery
My recent trip to Bangkok, following my arrival from Malaysia, provided an opportunity for reflection on these two Southeast Asian nations. After spending over half a month in Bangkok, primarily staying at a friend's apartment, I contemplated the differences between Thailand and Malaysia and considered my future plans.
Bangkok: Familiarity and Nightlife
Having visited Thailand numerous times, I focused less on tourist attractions this trip. Instead, I spent most of my time enjoying the city's nightlife with friends, frequenting bars and restaurants. The cost of living in Bangkok, particularly apartment rentals, seems reasonable. My friend's 50-square-meter apartment, featuring two rooms, was relatively affordable, costing only 2800 yuan per month, making for a comfortable stay.
Comparing Thailand and Malaysia
While some might compare Thailand and Malaysia, I find that their cultural and societal inclinations diverge significantly. My initial visits to Thailand years ago were exciting, a stark contrast to the strict educational environment of mainland China. The vibrant nightlife and open atmosphere felt new and liberating.
In contrast, Malaysia, despite being a first-time visit, felt welcoming and safe, possibly due to its strong Chinese cultural presence. The streets felt calmer, lacking the intense nightlife scene of Bangkok. It offered a more relaxing and peaceful environment.
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Thailand excels in its entertainment industry.
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Malaysia is stronger in aspects like daily life and family development.
For a single individual, Thailand's entertainment scene might be appealing. However, for raising a family, I believe Malaysia provides a better environment. Thailand's somewhat "unhealthy" culture and atmosphere could negatively impact children's development. Malaysia's multicultural tolerance and preservation of Chinese traditions make it more suitable for children.
Future Plans: A Shift in Focus to Malaysia
Malaysia has significantly shifted my perspective on Southeast Asia. After investigating the country, I've decided to pursue moving to Malaysia with my family, a goal I hope to achieve within the next ten years. This represents a change from my initial plan to relocate to Thailand.
Preparing for Relocation
To realize this goal, I am taking several steps:
- Financial Preparation: I am building cross-border e-commerce websites to generate a stable income.
- Language Acquisition: I am dedicating time to learning English, using AI tools to enhance my listening and speaking skills. I also read English-language news sources to stay informed.
- Exploration and Research: I plan to travel more extensively, including to Malaysia with my children, to deepen my understanding of different cultures and customs.
Visa Considerations and Responsibility
The recent news of a mutual visa exemption between China and Malaysia is a positive development. However, it's important to note that the visa is not permanent and has a five-year term, renewable for another five years unless otherwise indicated. Stays are limited to a maximum of 90 days within a 180-day period.
While I believe this is a step in the right direction, some restrictions are necessary. Overly open policies could lead to overcrowding and potential problems for the local population. I feel responsible when Chinese nationals move abroad as their actions reflect on the Chinese. I'm trying to be more strict with myself to leave a good image in people's minds.
It's also crucial for Chinese people living abroad to be mindful of their behavior and follow local rules, as individual actions can impact the perception of the entire Chinese community.
Embracing Exploration and Experience
I encourage those who are young and have the opportunity to travel and explore different places. Before settling down with family responsibilities, taking the time to experience the world can prevent future regrets. Despite being 40, I remain curious and driven to explore before it becomes more difficult later in life. Since we live only once, travel and have new experiences. Live life to the fullest!