Subjectivity and the Path to Strength
Today, we will delve into the concept of subjectivity, exploring its meaning, the reasons why it often leads to dislike from others, and why personal growth becomes the only viable path forward for those who possess it.
Judging Strong Subjectivity
Defining Subjectivity
Western philosophy has long grappled with the concept of subjectivity. In the modern context, heavily influenced by Sartre's existentialism, subjectivity refers to a strong sense of self-consciousness and the freedom to live according to one's own values.
Sartre's Existentialism
Sartre believed that existence precedes essence, meaning individuals are not defined by predetermined purposes or societal expectations. He argued that individuals are born first and then define themselves through their actions and choices. The meaning of life is not found in adherence to external standards, but in the free choices we make and the responsibility we take for them.
Characteristics of a Subjective Person
People with strong subjectivity exhibit several key characteristics:
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Self-Confidence: They trust their own judgment and decisions.
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Internal Standards: They prioritize their own values and beliefs over the expectations of others.
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Independent Thought: They form their own opinions and are not easily swayed by external influences.
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Rejection of "Other People's Hell": They strive to avoid being controlled or defined by the opinions and judgments of others. They minimize the impact of external validation on their self-worth.
Why People Hate Those With Strong Subjectivity
Low Cognitive Ability and Lack of Understanding
One primary reason for dislike is that individuals with lower cognitive abilities often struggle to understand perspectives different from their own. They may be heavily influenced by societal norms and common sense, leading them to judge those who deviate from these norms. They lack the capacity to genuinely accept diverse ways of living and may even pity or despise those who make unconventional choices.
Selfishness and Self-Reliance
Another reason is that strongly subjective individuals often prioritize self-reliance and personal responsibility. When facing challenges, they tend to look inward for solutions rather than blaming external factors. This can be perceived as arrogance or selfishness by those who prefer to attribute their failures to external circumstances, making them feel uncomfortable or challenged.
Rationalization of Behavior
People often dislike those with strong subjectivity because their very existence challenges their own choices and values. Individuals living within traditional or universal moral frameworks need to rationalize their behavior. When confronted with someone who lives differently, they may feel compelled to defend their own choices, leading to resentment and dislike towards the non-conformist.
Becoming Stronger: The Only Way Out
Escape the Bottom Layer
If you possess strong subjectivity and find yourself surrounded by negativity, the only solution is to strive for personal growth and upward mobility. Individuals at the "bottom layer" may not appreciate your wisdom or want you to succeed, potentially dragging you down to maintain their own sense of normalcy.
Reduced Encounters with Negativity
As you rise above, you will encounter fewer of these individuals. This is not because the proportion of close-minded people decreases, but because the overall number of people diminishes, making it less likely that you'll have to deal with them.
Focus on Forward Progress
If you are a person with a strong sense of self and are disliked by those around you, the key is to keep moving forward. Don't be deterred by criticism or attempts to hold you back. By continuing to grow and evolve, you will ultimately achieve a more fulfilling and comfortable life.
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